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Sacred Sex

by Bonnie Moss 

Sex is what brought us here. Without sex, you and I won't be here.

There is nothing cheap or dirty about sex. It is the attitude towards sex that 
makes it degrading, sinful ,and dirty. Sex can be beautiful and precious. It fulfills 
the function of procreation, it could also be a means to commit the most heinous crime.

It is important not only to be aware of our sexuality.We need to acknowledge its i
mportance as a factor for a balanced life. It is the fire that keeps the flames of romance 
aglow, the strong fiber that keeps a relationship together against all odds. It is refreshing, 
it is healing. Respect for sex add meaning to our human existence and relationships.

We treat with reverence those things we hold dear to our hearts. Activities that we enjoy 
leave us with that sense of accomplishment, of satisfaction, and make us feel good.

Music is considered the language of the soul.Who does not enjoy music? It is one of the
great pleasures mankind has discovered. There are as many tunes ,songs and music as 
there are performers,composers and song writers.

Sex is an integral part of human existence.The expression of sex has many faces, strikes 
many chords, creates a variety of tempo, of harmony or dis-harmony. Who does not admire 
beautiful and awesome surroundings; seek and welcome serenity and tranquility, away from 
the frenzy of the world.  Expression and wholesome atmosphere create  and inspire the
 moment for the ultimate experience of Sacred Sex.

We do not subscribe to the same type of music, but generally, there must be something in 
the music that stirs the soul; a melody that promotes a certain mood, a tune that softens or 
excites the psyche. Listening to music is soothing, it is inspiring, it quietens a cluttered mind.

No human activity but sex can elevate the soul, the human spirit to ecstasy, out of the physical 
realm into a world only the two physical bodies can experience.It is not the "quickie", not the 
one in the backseat, or any isolated dim spot that is available at the moment.

Anyone who has been to a concert, a recital , or attended a symphony, knows these events 
need planning. Sex is like attending one of these events- to fully enjoy it,  set aside the time, 
the resources needed, plan the when and the how will naturally follow. It is not an event we 
attend to everyday. It is a special occasion we look forward to with anticipation.
Of course,spontaneity adds pizzazz.

Why not a sacred time for sacred sex? For anyone who is interested to learn more about the
"How to", the resources are limitless- read up on Tantric Sex or get a copy of the Kama Sutra.

But, no matter how much information you read on sex, if the attitude to elevate it to something 
sacred is not there, it would be difficult to experience the bliss,the ecstasy  and the sense of 
fulfillment only sacred sex can offer.

Expression is a very personal matter, so is the experience.

There is music, and there is music. Some people enjoy the singer who belts out the words, 
in constant gyration or movement. They see the singer, do they hear the song? There are 
others who are quite content with the blues, or country tempo,some go for ballads,but, there 
is always room for the appreciation of the music of the great masters.Do not mistake it for
the elevator music..Many great  music have "popular hits" versions that appeal  to most.Take 
Beethoven's Fifth, Chopin's Nocturne in B Flat ( To Love Again),Mozart's Eich Nacht Music 
( Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star).

Sacred sex is like attending a symphony- the orchestra and all its sections play their part, 
the percussion, the wind instruments, the strings.What does these haveto do with sex? When 
elevated to the highest form that it can be, every single part of the human bodycan be tuned 
up like the sections of the orchestra,to produce that haunting, enjoyable , uplifting 
and satisfying music.

Listen to some good music, it's not all one beat,one, chord, one tone. Observe the adagio, 
enjoy the cantabile, the sweetness of the dolce, then get exhilarated as the orchestra progresses 
to forte,fortissimo, con anima, then..it starts to slow down,go into ritardando, some endings maybe 
real soft or bombastic,  but always passionate. Notice that after each performance of  the symphony,
there are seconds of quiet, when you hear not a sound, until the maestro takes his bow.

Lovers need time together , without interruptions to get to know each otherIt's a special night, 
without the children, and no telephone. It is time together,to immerse in each otherís love, where 
they experience the ecstasy of being ONE.

Two souls are able to reach out into the depths of each other's being during moments of intimacy, It
is difficult to interpret most work of art, and feel the passion of the artist, understand what was on his
mind while creating his work. But music is different.The performer has the freedom to express the 
inner stirrings within the soul, with passion that radiates through the performance,filters to the 
spectators, and enjoy the transformation to a different world and savor the peace within the soul.

In sacred sex, it helps to understand the human anatomy, to fine tune all these parts, yes, from 
head to toe, to stir the most passionate, ecstatic and blissful act. When two souls are able to reach 
this state of oneness, savor it, and respect it.

That is sacred sex.