In Search of Self
by Bonnie Moss (c) 2005-11
The human self is a temple of the Divine.
Life goes on. You can choose to let life
flow or get stuck and just keep spinning
Each day offers a chance to look at the
brighter side of life and enjoy it. Each
day is a chance to be connected with your
divinity. Each day heralds a new beginning.
You have to be part of it.
The world never stands still. Time comes
when battles that were once critical no
longer top the list of priorities. That
is if you learn to reconcile yourself
with the past, sort out the precious
lessons and move on.
Take control of your life, validate
yourself, honor and respect your being
and most of all, love yourself.This is
not about being aggressive,domineering
and always in control and confrontational.
It is not about becoming self-absorbed.
Far from it. It is about offering a more
compatible YOU in a relationship.There
are inevitable bumps in any relationship,
unavoidable falls and pitfalls. No problem
lasts forever.There has to be a way to
adjust your sails and enjoy the breeze,
not get lost in the storm.
Take stock of your life. What are your
illusions? What is your reality? How do
you deal with failure,with disappointments
and the other elements that fuel stress?
Are you just coping, mostly in a crisis
management mode? What can you do?
Sometimes, one's world, one's hopes and
dreams come crashing with a big bang,
a major shaking up of life. This is a
chance to take a great leap of faith,
to grow and strengthen your self-trust that
is eroding.Move on without fear. Fear
can be paralyzing. Move on instead with
self-confidence. Have faith in yourself.
Faith is enduring.
Grab the chance to harness the power from
the river of knowledge already flowing
through your being, to take that first
step to get up and move on to the next
phase. Time to let go and really let go.
Hanging on to personal loss builds up
powerful negative blocks; these fuel
anger, grief,bitterness, vindictiveness,
distrust,confrontation, erodes self-confidence
- all negative and very powerful energies.
Over time, accumulation of these take
its toll on your health.
Why allow a negative influence to knock
on the door? Hurtful issues tend to get
remote and forgotten over time. Why dwell
on these? Negative energy gets very
powerful and takes on a life of its own.
What purpose does it serve? NOTHING.
Take peace over misery any day, any time.
In a world of turmoil, deception, hypocrisy
and insensitivity,not to mention fighting
with inner demons, peace can be elusive.
Believe in the power of love and peace.
Loving yourself first enhances your
capability to share that love with others.
Strengthen your personal power. Nurture
your spirit,let it bring forth deep insight,
thus, perspective.Search deep within, bring
out the glitter from within your soul, let
it radiate joy and peace. Help make this
a better world.
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