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DECISION BLOCKERS
To be or not to be , this was Hamlet's dilemma.
Shakepeare waxed peotic over indecision. Today,
it is elevated to a science. Some people who have
a problem with making decisions are referred to
specialists, be diagnosed with some underlying
medical condition. Decision makers are paid top
dollars for their ability or is it capability?
Read on!
excerpt from:
Overcoming Indecision by Theodore Isaac Rubin
2003-04
DECISION MAKING:
Arrange priorities in our lives, strengthen our
belief in ourselves, start with self-evaluation.
Indecisiveness- jumping from one option to
another points to underlying notion that no option
can be good.
Global Blockers to Decision Making:
Losing touch with feelings.
Resignation- avoidance of anxiety from potential
conflict or shunning the whole thing so as not to
be pulled apart.
Having no priorities or being out of touch with
what is and what isn't important in one's life.
Lack of confidence or poor self esteem.
Hopelessness, depression, severe anxiety.
Unrealistic image of self or self-idealization.
Self-erasing, inappropriate dependency on others
and the obsessive need to be liked.
Obsessive quest for applause and mastery.
Dom Perignon Syndrome- perfectionism and
wanting it all.
Sustaining the chronic belief that something better
will come along; yearning for what isn't ,while
demeaning what is.
Wishful thinking.
Nothing ever compares to what exists only in the
imagination-that which exists in the imagination
does not exist at all.
Fear in generating self-hate in anticipation of
a bad choice.
Coulda, woulda, shoulda-chonic self-hate from
being swamped with tyrannical demands on self.
Option blindness.
Time pressure distortion and panic, the illusion
that there is not enough time.
Impaired judgment.
Lack of inner integration or
the/Chairman is Missing syndrome.
Severe disorganization
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